If you’re seeking more control over your life, this post is for you. I’m sharing seven key things I realize have helped me feel like I’m on the right track.
In today’s busy and expensive world, feeling like you truly have it all together can seem out of reach. But certain practices can make a huge difference in how organized, grounded, and confident you feel.
Whether you’re in your 20s or looking to make changes in your 30s and beyond, these insights will guide you toward a more organized and fulfilling life. Let’s dive in!
1. Steady Income
A steady income is one of the most obvious things that will make you feel in control of your life. Whether it’s from a job or a business you start, a consistent income helps you plan and grow.
Now, understand that getting to know yourself and what you really want to be doing in exchange for money is a process. So please be patient with yourself.
Having a stable income from a source you enjoy and organizing your finances is key to feeling in control. If you’re in a period of career uncertainty, remember—no knowledge is ever wasted. Your path may twist and turn, but it all adds value.
2. Regular Health Check-Ups
Staying on top of your health is crucial for feeling organized and capable. Regular check-ups— a yearly physical, gynecological exam, and semiannual dental visits—ensure you’re maintaining your well-being.
Healthcare in the U.S. can be costly, but there are affordable options available. Dental schools, for instance, often provide low-cost services, and dental insurance plans can start as low as $25 per month.
Additionally, many health clinics offer grants or financial assistance programs, so don’t hesitate to inquire about available support.
When it comes to health insurance, consider speaking to a healthcare.gov representative during open enrollment (starting November 1, 2024). A phone call with one of their representatives can go a long way in understanding affordable coverage options based on your financial situation.
3. Monthly Self-Care Budget
Setting aside a specific monthly amount for self-care can make a BIG difference. Regardless of gender, how you present yourself impacts how you feel and how others perceive you.
For women, this might include hair, nails, skincare, make up, and a few professional outfits. For men, a good haircut, good grooming habits and professional outfits, can boost confidence.
Investing in self-care enhances your mood and makes you feel more put together. Never underestimate the power of looking your best—it can and will lead to more opportunities and personal growth.
4. Structured Weekly Schedule
A well-planned schedule can be life-changing.
I work Monday to Friday, 8am to 6pm, managing my blog, tax advisory firm, and bookkeeping clients. I also time-block my evenings to include everything from dinner and chores to exercise, reading and quiet time.
Listening to a podcast or YouTube video while handling tasks can maximize your time, but I also recommend spending a few minutes in silence each day. This quiet time allows your mind to reset and foster creativity.
A balanced schedule, including downtime, makes you feel more in control of both work and personal life.
5. Caring for Your Pets and Children
Taking care of your dependents—whether pets or children—is a reflection of how well you manage responsibilities.
Regular vet visits, grooming, and proper care are essential for pets, just as providing for your children’s needs is non-negotiable.
Surround yourself with like-minded people who value responsibility. It’s concerning when people have the means for luxury but neglect basic care for their loved ones.
Showing responsibility in all areas of life is key to feeling more organized.
6. Healthy Diet
Eating healthy doesn’t have to be complicated. Simple meal planning can improve your energy and productivity.
For example, I’ve been following the South Beach diet and have already lost 10 pounds. It’s not just about the weight loss—the diet has taught me how to make healthier nutritional choices, and most importantly, feel more energized.
Having a structured eating plan helps you stay on track with your food budget, which adds to a greater sense of organization and control.
Your physical health impacts your mental well-being—being mindful of what you eat boosts both.
7. Weekly Goal Setting
I encourage you to pick a set time each week to reflect and plan for the week ahead.
Each Sunday, I write down a few goals on a piece of scratch paper in order to stay focused during the upcoming week. Whether it’s sticking to my diet, finishing a book, or being productive with clients, having a visual reminder helps me stay on track.
Bonus Tip: Create a Goals Corner
In my home office, I have a designated space for short-term and long-term goals. I not only list the goal but I put a date next to it. Whenever I accomplish one, I cross it off, which reinforces my progress.
If you prefer privacy like I do, keep this area in a space that isn’t frequented by guests. I’ve found that keeping your goals to yourself is crucial for achieving them without outside distractions and opinions .
Conclusion
This post was all about the seven practices have helped me feel more organized and accomplished. Like many, my journey has had its share of ups and downs, but these strategies have been key to regaining control and focus.
I hope these tips help you reflect on your progress as you work toward your own goals!
